I would have to say if you do have your hymen definitely tell him you are a virgin if not it's up to you if you think you might be too tight for him or anything else like that. Maybe someone who knows more about hymens and vaginas can address that issue. Hell, why not add lies to a total disregard for the truth? Girls don't have to "protect their studly reputation" the way we do although a girl probably wouldn't care that much either if the situation was reversed. Even if your hymen is still partially intact, he might not notice I have never been in a relationship.
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How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?
But I still think that's a question that should be asked later on when you know someone better. He'll never know for sure. And I can't go to any of my family or friends because they wouldn't believe me. I'm neither ashamed nor proud of my virginity — it's more just a matter of circumstance. It sounded right at the time.
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People I've know that were open about their virginity were usually given a hard time about it. Just have sex, period. I hope to be able to ask by the third date in order to not waste either of our time, but even that seems early. I didn't posted by suomynona at AM on October 17, Each email has expressed your exact conundrum — should they get it over with or keep waiting?
Was my read on these events based on reality? That and the fact that your eyes will more then likely be full of tears. I would recommend at least telling him that you haven't had much experience, and that it's been a while, so you're nervous. It is not necessary to accept everything as true But I waited until he had his pants down to tell him. Well, if the question were asked on the first date which I think is inappropriate , I would try to understand why he wants to know so soon. A male reader, anonymous , writes 15 September :.